Baby first
Think of the possibilities why your husband is so enamoured by your baby, enough for you to feel neglected. Perhaps it has always been his dream to be a father, and his intense desire to become a good one blinds him to the needs of your relationship. He may even think that you don’t need him as much as your baby does. After all, you can take care of yourself- your baby can’t.
You should also reflect the baby how the two of you were before the baby arrived. How would you describe the bond you had with your husband back then? We’re you fighting a lot? If so, maybe the baby became a welcome distraction for your husband.
You can only learn the reason behind your husband’s extreme attachment to the baby by talking to him. When you do don’t put him on the defensive by saying things like, “You are neglecting me”. Better to create a mood when you can both relax. Maybe go out on a date where you can both discuss your plans for your son. He may get excited talking about it.
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